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Body Language and Other Public Speaking
Essentials
Every public speaker has to keep in mind that it isn't just a
speech that is being given. Someone is giving it. You. No one
can avoid portraying themselves in some way during a public
speech. Even doing nothing but standing and reading words still
shows one style (a dull one). Perk up your body language and
delivery and you can wow them every time.
It's possible to go overboard analyzing the meaning behind
every gesture. But it's still true that the way you move, the
gestures you use and the way your voice projects says
something. You want that something to add to the speech, to
keep it engaging for the audience. Fortunately, you don't have
to be a professional actor or take years of lessons to develop
the needed skills. A little common sense and a fair amount of
practice will take you far.
One of the most important elements to good delivery is to
project confidence. That comes more easily to some than to
others. But it's important for all public speakers. A figure of
authority is accepted as one and confidence is one of the best
ways to convey that.
A certain amount of nervousness is natural, especially for
beginners. But even experienced speakers will sometimes have a
little bit of stage fright before a speech. For some, the
feeling never goes away completely no matter how many speeches
they deliver.
Not to worry. Just focus on the speech and the audience and not
on your internal state. Keep your concentration on the job at
hand and any feelings of fear you do experience will not
interfere with your delivery.
Move about the stage if you can. Avoid simply standing behind a
podium like a cardboard cutout. You don't want your movements
to distract, but a little motion keeps the audience following
you. It also gives you a chance to observe whether they're
paying attention. As you watch the audience you can note
whether they're watching you intently, or drifting off.
Whether you inject humor, personal anecdote or keep the speech
light will depend on the occasion. Most speeches will give you
the opportunity to inject some meaningful story that helps you
make the point. But match your body language and your voice to
the style of the story, and the speech overall.
Some subjects don't lend themselves readily to lighthearted
humor. War, child abuse and other topics are most often taken
seriously, and appropriately so. Matching your movements and
gestures, and especially your tone of voice to the subject will
create an integrated delivery. Talking about a subject the
audience finds very personal and serious by cracking jokes will
jar them. It will tend to alienate them. You want your
movements and voice to help you keep them on your side and
listening attentively.
Project well, make sure they can hear and see you at all times.
Match your tone and movements to the subject. Appear the expert
on the subject you are by your voice and body language. You'll
have them in the palm of your hand, hanging on every word.
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